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· When You Leave a Mess Behind
· Getting Back to Work?
· Mortgage Help on the Way


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CONTENTS

A1. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU LEAVE A MESS BEHIND
A2. NEED TO GET BACK TO WORK?
B. DID YOU KNOW...?
C. THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH
D. SPECIAL SURFING SITE
E. OH MY AGING FUNNY BONE

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A1. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU LEAVE A MESS BEHIND

This is the first article in a series that will appear over the following months.

What do you want to happen to your belongings, money, collections, keepsakes, embarrassing secrets, and family members when you pass on?

Family members? Yes. Family Members. You DO realize that they have to deal with your estate once you pass into your glory, don't you? There's a lot of painful, dirty, tedious detail work to do that no person is ready for. If you don't take care of it now and ask for help, your family-or perhaps total strangers-will need to go through everything-the good, the bad, the embarrassing. All of it.

When you leave a mess behind.Yes. They will clean up your messy old papers, your power tools, your pantry, your cat, your medicine cabinet and your refrigerator's contents. They will read each and every note to the bank …from 1947. The repetition may cause them to begin to slowly ignore other notes, which, according to Murphy's law, are likely to be the important ones to notice.

They will try to figure out which accountant's letterhead they find on your office desk belongs to which part of your life. What to do with the towels in the linen closet? What to do with this envelope that says "SECRET" on it and has a nondescript key inside? The sticky notes you wrote to yourself to remember how to turn on the computer? Those will be sorted with the sticky notes about your dry cleaning, and your prescriptions, and your investments.

Here is a typical set of papers one might find when cleaning a loved one's home:
old travel brochures, life insurance offers, "work from home!" advertising brochures, grocery coupons, water bills, trinkets from Reader's Digest or QVC, old gas bills, the $100,000 municipal bond maturation notice, unwanted pizza-delivery discount coupons, and local community news-fliers left at the door.

Wait-Did you catch that? Yes, we once found almost exactly that set of items sitting by the trash and ready for disposal. Among them was a $100,000 municipal bond maturation notice. It would have been eventually relinquished to the State of California, had we not found it for the heirs. True story.

You see? These stories abound, so it ALL has to be gone through by someone. The medal you won in high school Latin club will be evaluated with your football trophy, or the first ring a boy ever gave you, perhaps. Of course all of this gets evaluated along with the box of self-addressed envelopes you saved to steam off the return postage back in the days before they made business-reply envelopes, and the sealed box of Ralston hot cereal left on your kitchen countertop, and your beloved cat's future.

The safe deposit box you kept secret and 100% of its contents will become property of the state you live in because you never told your heirs about it verbally, or formally on paper. Yes, you left that key in the envelope marked "SECRET," ...but no instructions to go with it. To even your most responsible heir, it does not exist. The heirloom diamonds in it? The state of your residence takes that, eventually. Rest assured!

Get the picture? If you do not organize your life, your personal effects, your papers, your will or living trust, it will be done by others who will miss many details under the sheer weight of the task, and you will have ZERO input. Your heirs inherit a headache at best, a nightmare at worst.

In this series we will explore the reality most heirs inherit when their parents and other loved ones die, from how to approach the two years' worth of moldering Meals-on-Wheels food containers shoved under the counter to how to organize paperwork found in the decedent's home office. We even have suggestions for what to do with a "secret" key.

We're going to look at your responsibilities both as an heir, and as a decedent, because in your lifetime you're guaranteed to be both.

Let's start with a basic concept: Everything in your home it will be examined when you're gone…and most of it will likely be a mystery for your heirs to solve while they are grieving over their loss of you, their loved one. This cuts both ways. If you don't like your heirs, just think of them poring over your most personal and private things! If you love them dearly, why would you put them through the trauma of sorting out your estate?

EVERY AMERICAN should take an evening to write down what they want to happen to their belongings when they die. This is an important, if non-legal beginning. A first step. That piece of paper isn't worth the cost of air in a court of law, but it will help you immensely when you sit down with your advisors to make out a living trust or a will. And, it would STILL help your heirs if you passed before you got it formalized into a will because they could read your intentions in black-and-white. Break down your task into pieces:

- Financial
- Personal
- Property
- Control

Decide who should be in control LAST. Mind you, there are laws on the books to guide that person, but pick the most levelheaded person after you've gone through listing what it is that you'll be leaving them to deal with. The flashy relative you see only once per year isn't the one to pick, regardless of how much money she/he appears to have.

You want the most responsible, action oriented, decision-making person who cares about carrying out YOUR wishes first and foremost. List the following information for such a person to use after you are gone:

- Bank names/Account numbers
- Lawyer contact information
- Accountant contact information
- Investment counselor(s) contact information
- Financial account statements
- Insurance policy documents
- Automobile ownership documents
- Pets' veterinarian information
- Your best friend's contact information
- Your clergy's contact information

Now write out a little note to history. Tell your loved ones, or anyone else, what you value, what you're proud of, what you wish you had done differently even. Tell them where the diamonds are buried, about the newspaper you hid in the wall as a time capsule when you built the house. Tell them about your best friend, or how to care for Fluffy the cat. This wisdom will help your family and friends as they handle your final affairs.

If "who should get what" immediately occurs to you, write that down, too. If not, it can wait a bit. This is an ongoing process, but one that must be completed in full, and soon.

The next morning, call three estate attorneys for quotes on drawing up a living trust or will. Estate law varies from state to state, but if you are allowed a living trust, it is a far more powerful than a will, and can even help you financially. Speak with your financial advisors should you choose this method, so they can work with your chosen estate attorney.

The word "attorney" just sounds expensive, doesn't it? Well, it's actually not so bad. The consequences of not using one can be totally devastating to your loved ones, however. Financially, and emotionally. And those forms at the stationary store? Forget it. One little mistake in how they are completed, such as a misspelling, or a name on the wrong line, or a date mistake, and the entire document is worthless, and chaos takes over. Use an attorney.

Coming in the series:

How to Clean Out a House
Paying off Debts
Hunting Down Hidden or Forgotten Assets

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A2. NEED TO GET BACK TO WORK?

Does the following description fit you or someone you know? :

You're part of the "sandwich generation." You know, sandwiched between kids in college and parents who will need, or already are receiving care. You worked hard, succeeded tremendously, packed your 401(k) and annuities as full as you could and took a much deserved and hard-won early retirement.

Then came the mortgage meltdown, and your investments went along for the ride.

And now you've got to return to work.

You're not alone, and you likely already knew that. For millions of Americans going back to work after they've retired is a reality. Some have been contacting their old employers. Others are back in school. Some are starting new businesses because they know that a recession is one of the best times to do it. Regardless, there are a number of things to consider, plan for, and options for everything.

Don't be bitter. Get over it—it shows on our faces over time when we discuss anything we don't like—and it will in a job interview, too. Just make an action plan and get after the task like you used to in your office, and suck it up. Tap your old and new networks and spheres of influence just like you used to. C'mon, You know how to do this! Brush up the resume, and then write a new, neutral one that can transfer you into other professions. Did you graduate from Harvard? Go back under the executive refresher plan. That goes for other universities, too. What about going back to school to learn new skills? You probably took some career-enhancing courses back when you were working; it's the same thing now. If you don't use technology much, this isn't an option for you. You MUST learn to do it!

Forget returning to a workforce that is text message-literate, database spreadsheet driven, and email addicted if you aren't at least capable in those areas. There are many programs at the local level that teach these new and different but easy-to-learn skills. Call your city recreation department, your local school district, and community college for information on programs like these in your area. Training is likely available online for you, too, if you retired to a remote, bucolic area or are simply averse to walking through campus with a bunch of "kids." Remember that the fastest growing demographic online is senior citizens. If your parents and peers can do it you can, too.

Many retirees will try to return to their former employer. But in today's reality that employer may be long gone -or in receivership. If your old firm is still there you may try returning as a 1099-status contractor, if not as a W2 employee. The employer gets the benefit of your experience, doesn't have to incur the extra expenses of benefit package, retirement plan expense, and health insurance costs. You, the returning team member, get a good job. Very important-companies will use contractors even when there is a hiring freeze.

Another option is to apply for a position in the same industry, but at a competing firm. Your brains and experience are for sale here, and a competitor may be very interested in yours. It isn't espionage-you don't work anywhere now. It's just your experience and abilities on the market to the highest/best bidder you can find for them.

Some can seek part time work in a new industry at a lower pay rate than they may be used to. "Scrambling" is honorably taking action, a strong American cultural trait. Yes, the greeter at Wal-Mart is in that category, and for some it's a perfect fit. But part time work can be found in other, more intellectually satisfying areas, too. Are your high-level management skills transferable to a community non-profit? Those skills could be a valuable addition to a local charitable organization-working with schools, for instance. Don't think of unseating the organization's director, but you'll probably be very valuable at mid-level, and there are many more of those jobs than there are director positions for someone re-entering the work force.

What about a former salesman working as a fundraiser for a nonprofit? You can get rich a second time in that profession if you're good at sales, and nobody in their right mind who needs fundraising will turn up their nose at a seasoned professional willing to work for "commission +", or even just straight commission.
What if you're a homemaker and you need to enter the workforce for the first time? Do you cook? Taking a food-service industry certificate at your local community college or adult education classes can lead to a job. Think not just about bustling restaurants and TV chefs; think about school lunch programs, nursing homes, corporate cafeterias, and hospital kitchens. There are many, many places to market your kitchen skills that may be unglamorous but pay a good employee a fair wage.

Can you start a business? If you were an entrepreneur in your former life, or a business manager, you've probably got this in the back of your mind already. As you know, a recession is one of the best times to start one-but remember, your income needs must fit the task and goal. Don't start a business to mollify your ego if you need cash today. Go get a part time job and build the business plan at night-like you used to!

Additional financial information may be found at:
http://www.seniorresource.com/finance.htm


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B. DID YOU KNOW...?

1. Mortgage Help on the Way
Homeowners may be able to get help refinancing their mortgage or in modifying its terms through the Making Home Affordable Program. This part of the President's Homeowner Affordability and Stability Plan was created to help millions of homeowners refinance or modify their mortgages to a payment that is affordable, both now and in the future. You can use the self-assessment tools provided on MakingHomeAffordable.gov to see if you are among the seven- to nine million homeowners who may be able to benefit from Making Home Affordable.

Veterans who are encountering problems making their mortgage payments should speak with their servicers as soon as possible to explore options to avoid foreclosure. Contrary to popular opinion, servicers really do not want to foreclose, because foreclosure costs a lot of money. Depending on a veteran's specific situation, servicers may offer options to avoid foreclosure. These options might include a repayment plan, special forbearance, loan modification, additional time to arrange a private sale, short sale, or deed-in-lieu of foreclosure.

Learn more at
http://www.homeloans.va.gov/docs/delinquent_veteran_borrowers_in_delinquency.pdf

Additional financial information may be found at
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2. Four Honored for 2008 AARP-NAHB "Livable Communities"
The awards, co-sponsored by American Association of Retired Persons (AARP) and the National Association of Home Builders (NAHB), were created to shine a spotlight on builders, remodelers, and developers who build homes and communities with features that improve everyday comfort, safety, and personal independence for those who live in them.

"The winners of the 2008 Livable Communities Awards have clearly taken note of the increasing demand for more accessible, livable homes and communities, and are on the leading edge of change," said NAHB Chairman, Sandy Dunn. "The trend-setting homes and communities we honor with the 2008 Livable Communities Awards meet the demands of both today's and tomorrow's home owners by combining easy living with inviting design."

"The 2008 Livable Communities Award winners offer some great examples of appealing, user-friendly design," said Elinor Ginzler, AARP senior vice president. "The sheer number of boomers will increase demand for a whole variety of home and community options." The number of persons 65 and older is expected to grow to 70 million by 2030.

Features help residents adapt the home to life-altering circumstances, and fully support the option of aging in place. The designs include such elements as: slip-resistant interior and exterior surfaces, extra-wide doorways, Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA)-compliant plumbing and kitchen appliances, and adjustable shelves, which are among the many features that make this home easy for everyone to navigate. State-of-the-art insulation, "wise energy" light bulbs, ceiling fans, and Energy Star appliances-all contribute to reducing long-term utility usage and costs.

The winners were:

Interior Design Details, for the Rathburn residence in Brea, California
This remodeled home was designed for a woman who had limited mobility. Interior Design Details built archways and widened doorways and installed automation and sensor units. The remodel also included slip-resistant interior floors, lever door handles, dimmer light switches, granite countertops and more.

New Millennial Homes, for the Freedom Home in Tampa, Florida
New Millennial Homes designed and built an affordable home that met ADA design standards and included Veterans Affairs and Fair Housing Act features. The home also included Energy Star-rated appliances, state-of-the-art insulation and other measures to reduce utility costs.

Bainbridge Projects LLC, for Vineyard Lane on Bainbridge Island, Washington
Bainbridge Projects turned a former vineyard on four acres in Bainbridge Island into an innovative, livable, 45-unit condominium community. The property features rustic, well-lit cobblestone walkways, extensive elevator access, oversize windows, level front entrances, a coffee house, and numerous public patios.

HallKeen/The Braverman Company for Winooski Falls in Winooski, Vermont
Located in northwestern Vermont, Winooski Falls provides residents with a sense of small-town community life for its residents, and features convenient proximity to a river front walkway, many public transportation options, downtown Burlington, countless shops, restaurants, two college/university campuses, and the largest hospital in the state. The community offers energy-efficient, universally designed and affordable units.

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C. THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH

We present here some words from those with a birthday this month.

Bjorn Borg - "My greatest point is my persistence. I never give up in a match."

Tom Jones - "Let's not complain about why things don't work. Let's see if we can come up with something that we can all get behind."

Anna Kournikova - "God gives all to those who get up early."

Barbara Bush - "Cherish your human connections-your relationships with friends and family."

Joan Rivers - "I have no methods; all I do is accept people as they are."

More "Thoughts" at: http://www.seniorresource.com/thought.htm


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D. SPECIAL SURFING SITES

Computer and Internet Security Help
As a public service, the government has established a web site to address issues related to computer and internet security. OnGuardOnline.gov provides practical tips from the federal government and the technology industry to help you be on watch against Internet fraud, how to secure your computer and protect your personal information.

You can minimize the chance of an Internet problem using "awareness" as your first line of defense. Being alert while online helps you protect your information, your computer, and your money.

Here are seven elements that should be part of your online routine

  1. Protect your personal information. It's valuable.
  2. Know whom you're dealing with.
  3. Use security software that updates automatically.
  4. Keep your operating system and Web browser up-to-date, and learn about their security features.
  5. Keep your passwords safe, secure, and strong.
  6. Back up important files.
  7. Learn what to do in an emergency.
  8. Learn more about these elements at
    http://www.onguardonline.gov/topics/computer-security.aspx

In an effort to aid our readers we will from time to time provide a few excerpts from the government site.
The first of these topics is "Email Scams."

We all get spam in our email inbox. However, some of these are bogus offers looking to take some of our money. Con artists know how to make their claims seem legitimate. Some spam messages ask for your business, others invite you to a web site with a detailed pitch.

Either way, these tips can help you avoid spam scams:

- Protect your personal information. Share credit card or other personal information only when you're buying from a company you know and trust.

- Know whom you're dealing with. Don't do business with any company that won't provide its name, street address, and telephone number.

- Take your time. Resist any urge to "act now" despite the offer and the terms. Once you turn over your money, you may never get it back.

- Read the small print. Get all promises in writing and review them carefully before you make a payment or sign a contract.

- Never pay for a "free" gift. Disregard any offer that asks you to pay for a gift or prize.

Learn more about these elements at
http://www.onguardonline.gov/topics/email-scams.aspx



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E. OH MY AGING FUNNY BONE

1. Some Things to Ponder JG, Des Moines, IA

- The trouble with bucket seats is that not everybody has the same size bucket.

- Do you realize that in a number of years, we'll have thousands of OLD LADIES tattoos running around (and rap music will be the Golden Oldies!)?

- Money can't buy happiness-but somehow it's more comfortable to cry in a Corvette than in a Yugo.

2. The Words of Music

A tourist in Vienna is walking through a graveyard, and all of a sudden he hears some music. No one is around, so he starts searching for the source.

He finally locates the origin and finds it is coming from a grave with a headstone that reads: "Ludwig van Beethoven, 1770-1827." He then realizes that the music is the Ninth Symphony, but it is being played backwards! Puzzled, he leaves the graveyard, and persuades a friend to return with him.

By the time they arrive back at the grave, the music has changed. This time it is the Seventh Symphony, but like the previous piece, it is being played backwards.

Curious, the men agree to consult a music scholar. When they return with the expert, the Fifth Symphony is playing, again backwards. The expert notes that the symphonies are being played in the reverse order in which they were composed; the Ninth, then the Seventh, then the Fifth.

By the next day the word has spread and a throng has gathered around the grave. They are all listening to the Second Symphony being played backwards.

Just then the graveyard's caretaker ambles up to the group. Someone in the crowd asks him if he has an explanation for the music.

"Oh, it's nothing to worry about," says the caretaker. "He's just decomposing!"

 

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